Sunday, February 26, 2006

in which we discuss satin vs. georgette

Wedding Veil

I went on a recon mission to David's Bridal this weekend to scope out their bridesmaid dresses, since Jess is getting married and has a coupon and wants us to be able to pick out our own dresses since she is the best bride/friend ever. So the chosen color is red, a color all three of the bridesmaids in question have been known to get down with, so good start. At DB they call the color "apple." It is full on red. Not like fire station red, just a little deeper, like my car red.

I learned some important things, namely: on the question of separates. There aren't too many choices in "apple," and the pieces in different materials clash, i.e. one cannot wear a satin bodice with a taffeta skirt. The colors are slightly different in each material and it looks off. It's too bad because some of their tops are cute. I didn't see any satin skirts but perhaps they could be ordered? After all what's the point of making separates if they don't, like, match?

This is just for me personally, not the other girls: I don't think I can work the full, floor length dress. You know, like the kind with tulle under the skirt to make it poof out? I'm just, like, too tall. I'm 5'8" in flats and the swaths of red satin a dress of that length entails...Helcat thinks it is uncouth to wear a short dress as a bridesmaid but, then again, why am I taking notes on propriety from someone who goes by the name Helcat? That question is up to Jess and the other girls. I know we were planning on wearing different styles in the same color--should we stick to the same length?

Here are some of the dresses I liked, with their style numbers if you click on the images. All in all I would be perfectly content with DB as the source, since I felt like they had plenty of options. Once we get the dresses out of the way we can get to the really important part: SHOES.

bridesmaid option 1
Empire waist (with bow) tea length satin

bridesmaid option 3
Halter tea length satin

bridesmaid option 2
Halter foot length narrow skirt satin (if we go long)

Sunday, February 19, 2006

immunity

I need to work on my immune system cause I am sick for the second time in as many months. Gross.

idlewild6011606

I have to say, the trailer for Idlewild looks great, guys. That's August 25th. OutKast is releasing a soundtrack from it perhaps Aprilish.

Sunday, February 12, 2006

Overheard in New York

Too Good to Be True, Too Dumb to Be False
Chick #1: NYU is taking over the city. Soon they're gonna have to
start calling it "New York" City.
Chick #2: It's already called New York City!
--4th & Broadway
Overheard by: Kelly Raz
Love.

ETA:
Dick Cheney accidentally shoots Austin man.
You lose at life.

Friday, February 10, 2006

Block Party

Block Party

WOW. March 3rd, 100 minutes of guaranteed happiness. See trailer here.

Thursday, February 09, 2006

a thousand thousand

I have a new job tutoring at an elementary school in Northwest. The other day in the cafeteria Morgan, who's 6, ran up and wrapped her arms around me. "You're mine, you belong to me! I'm going to take you home with me!" I hugged her and said "I belong to a lot of people, Morgan." I was kneeling in front of Rodrigo at the time, and he asked, "How many people do you belong to?" So I held up my hands and started counting. "My parents, my sisters, my friends, my relatives..." at this point I just started rippling my fingers to count five after five after five, "...my teachers, my bosses, the other students I work with..." "A hundred, right? A thousand?" he asked. "A thousand thousand?"

I have been going to a bereavement group at the health center. It's good. We're unfolding each other's stories so gently. My mood is this really fierce, fragile thing I have to feed all the time. Do you want to know how lame depression is? I am going to show you. There is a list in my mind of things I want to do this weekend. Each one of these things is like a little bit of medicine, a small inoculation, but getting them done is hard. So I am going to list them in a quasi-public space, to build up some obligation. Depression is the ultimate banality. What if it were a matter of life and death whether you got your laundry done? Can you see my eyes rolling from here? This is what I put up with from myself.

* Pay this month's bills
* Go visit my friend in Waco
* Finish my grant application
* Call my friend in El Paso
* Start the Edward Said reading I am presenting on this week
* Sunday morning dim sum at Marco Polo

I almost want to pat it on the head, the sweet little life I’ve been restraining myself from. When I list it I can see it so plain—this is what I want.